The Reality Coach
Fred Tutwiler
Author of Your MEGAgiNormous Rules
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The Problem Isn't The Problem
Why Is Having a PURPOSE For Your Life So Necessary?
You're ALWAYS Fulfilling Your Expectations
The Rules RULE!
YOU'VE BEEN SOLD A BILL OF GOODS AND IT'S TIME TO LEARN THE REAL DEAL!!
From the earliest days of your life, people have been brainwashing you to believe that there are certain things you just can't have, no matter how much you want or need them! As part of your brainwashing, you have unconsciously constructed a set of rules that help you rationalize the constant negotiation between settling for what you get and pursuing your dreams.
Those rules have become HUGE for you. In fact, they have become
MEGAgiNormous!
And they are robbing you of the very things you want most:
Wonderful, loving relationships
Success in achieving your dreams and goals
Health and vitality
Abundant financial success
Peace and harmony in your life
Delight with the wonderful adventure of being alive
Fun! FUN! FUN!
Perhaps the cruelest irony of it all is that your rules are
NOT REALITY!
They are nothing more than cleverly designed propaganda!
Unfortunately, most of us have spent YEARS unconsciously "training" ourselves to believe the propaganda and give in to its influence. Despite its power over us, the propaganda is NOT THE TRUTH, no matter how convincing it may be and no matter how many people believe it.
But how do you know that if nobody ever tells you?

And what can you do about it once you know the truth?
Well, you could ask your friends or acquaintances. But then, if they really had any idea how to get outside of the propaganda, they'd already be doing it wouldn't they?

You could take a new class or join a new group, but your training will probably just drive you to similar conclusions and results as you've had in the past. After all, the propaganda is VERY STRONG and VERY DEEP.

You could work harder, learn new techniques, try to get better at something. But all of that fixing is exhausting and usually doesn't work anyway. Haven't you seen that before?

You could get some type of counseling to try and understand WHY you bail out on your dreams and fantasies. But, that wouldn't change your behavior, it would only give you some clues as to just how deeply entrenched the propaganda is. You still have to DO something, but what?

Or, you could just keep settling for what you get. Well, that pretty much sucks, doesn't it?
I'll show you how to debunk this destructive propaganda. It doesn't happen overnight, BUT IT DOES HAPPEN!!
I've spent years working with elite athletes, business executives and every day people who have one thing in common: they want to leave their mark on the world! They want to get everything they can out of their lives and they're sick and tired of settling for a brainwashed version of what they could be.
"My work with Fred Tutwiler has been a brutally honest process, at times confrontational, but always valuable. He knows little to nothing about soccer, yet he made me a better coach. You have to be willing to go through the process, willing to change. If you are, you WILL be rewarded."
Marcia McDermott, former Head Coach, WUSA Champion Carolina Courage
Women's Professional Soccer
Here are some questions I address in Your MEGAgiNormous Rules:
Why do so many of us keep doing the same old things even when they don't work?
Why do we tolerate people and circumstances that are toxic or disruptive to us?
Why do so many of our good intentions and resolutions end in failure?
What happened to that delightful and imaginative enthusiasm that was your constant companion as a child?
Why are we so often perplexed and ineffective in dealing with long term issues that limit our happiness and success?
What's so important to us that we're willing to sell out on our dreams and ambitions over and over?
The "problem" isn't the problem!
Over 30, 40 , or 50 years of living, you have concocted a menu of issues that you perceive as problems - injustices, betrayals, failures, disappointments, etc. But none of that is the TRUTH. It's only the propaganda! Those problems only occur because of your particular view of reality. In another reality, they wouldn't be problems at all. The solution to dealing with this quagmire is not in trying to sort out the problems, but in sorting out your view of reality that defines certain things as problems.
You and I have certain rules of thinking about everything in life. Even when we don't realize we are being governed by these invisible rules, and even when they don't work very well, we are compelled to operate inside those rules. It's automatic. It's our nature. Our actions, our conclusions and ultimately our results are determined by, and limited by, those MEGAgiNormous Rules!
The BAD news is, these rules and the culture of propaganda that launches them isn't going anywhere. It's all there for life, and nothing you do, short of a lobotomy or some other memory erasing process, will make them go away or change them.
The GOOD news is that, even though you can't change any of it, or get away from any of it, or fix any of it, you absolutely CAN deal with it in a powerful way that puts YOU in control and puts you squarely on a path to fulfilling your heart's longings.
When you read this book, you'll learn:
Where all those crazy, illogical and counterproductive rules come from, and why you are so stuck with them.
What is the single biggest factor in determining whether or not you will get what you want in any endeavor you undertake.
How you are determining the results you'll get before you even take the first action.
Why you keep doing something that undermines your happiness and success.
How your view of reality traps you into fulfilling the very outcomes you don't want, and what you can do to GET OUT OF THE TRAP!
How to discover the purpose you were born to fulfill and why nothing will ever change if you don't bring meaning and purpose into you life.
Why you can't "improve" your way to a happy and fulfilling life.
How your thoughts actually create the results you see around you.
And LOTS MORE!
DON'T LET ANYONE EVER MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE YOU DON'T DESERVE, OR CAN'T HAVE, WHAT YOU WANT!
"Fred Tutwiler is the perfect coach. He understands the human machinery better than anyone I've ever worked with. He doesn't just hear what you say, he hears what you DON'T say, and gets you to understand how decisive that is. In my years working with Fred, he has never given me advice or told me what to do. He always reminds me of my greatness and my connection to Spirit, and helps me see what actions are consistent with that."
Barry K. Selman, LCSW, Psychotherapist
Chapel Hill, North Carolina
When MEGAgiNormous Rules appears in bookstores later this fall, it will retail for $18.95, but if you order on my website now, the cost is only $15.75.
I am so confidant that this book will deliver what I'm promising that I am going to give you a RISK FREE guarantee.
If you order this book from me, and for ANY REASON WHATSOEVER, you are not delighted with what you learn, all you have to do is let me know and I will refund every penny you paid, including the postage and handling fees! No Questions, no BS!
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Are you ready to finally STOP fixing yourself and just GET WHAT YOU WANT?
"Yes, you absolutely CAN change your reality! "
Fred Tutwiler, author of Your MEGAgiNormous Rules